Love is like a pair of broken in shoes or broken in jeans, and that's what i miss. they feel awkward at first, but then they get broken in. when it's broken in and comfortable, you know each other, and are relaxed. that's the best part. don't buy shoes that don't fit. treat them well. make sure they're strong. look at the nicks and scuffs as time goes on. those are tails and stories that break them in and build their comfort. tighten the laces, loosen the laces, re-tie the laces, and take time to admire what is there.